事与愿违事情的发展与愿望相违背。英things go contrary to one's wishes;[查看详情]

拔苗助长即揠苗助长嫌禾苗长得慢而用手向上提以助其生长。比喻不顾事物发展的客观规律强求速成反而把事情搞坏。例他还是个孩子呀，可别拔苗助长哟！英pull up the rice shoots with the intention of helping them to grow; try to help the shoots grow by pulling them upw[查看详情]

背道而驰朝着相反方向的道路奔跑。比喻彼此方向目标完全相反。例像背道而驰其实倒是心心相印。——鲁迅《坟》英go(run) in the opposite direction; run counter to;[查看详情]

揠苗助长古时候宋国有个人嫌禾苗长得太慢，就一棵棵地往上拔起一点。后来用来比喻不顾事物的发展规律急于求成，反把事情弄坏。例揠苗助长苦心极力卒无所得也。——宋吕本中《紫微杂说》英spoil things by excessive enthusiasm as one who tries to help the shoots grew by[查看详情]